7 Things Every Woman Who’s Given Birth MUST Tell Young Women About Delivering

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1. “22 hours of labor” does NOT mean “22 hours straight of feeling contractions.”

When I was in my early 20s, I thought laboring for a day meant not just contracting for that long but actually PUSHING that whole time. And a few young women I’ve spoken with have similar misconceptions. So set the record straight: Most moms time labor from when they feel the first contraction to when the baby arrives. And hours can go by without feeling a contraction in the early stages of labor. Even at 9.5 centimeters, you may not have a contraction a minute.

2. Your contractions may start out so slight, you won’t know you’re having them.

Descriptions of contractions range from period-like cramps to feeling as though your body is being ripped apart. But there are all kinds of sensations during pregnancy—round ligament pain, uncomfortable gas, a Lord of the Dance performer in your uterus—that a first-time mom might not realize those first contractions are indeed contractions. And that’s a good thing! Because if you’re not sure they’re contractions, they’re bearable.

3. Unless you want to, you don’t have to see anything during delivery.

I had something akin to a panic attack during the delivery scene in Knocked Up. So I can only imagine how I would have reacted if I had been subject to one of those miracle of childbirth videos. But besides witnessing the IV go in at the hospital, I was blissfully unaware of other goings-on (my husband, on the other hand, saw everything; sorry, Paul). The blood and gore of health-class films are a few feet away from the mom-to-be’s eyes, but no doctor or nurse will ask, “Could you please check out what I’m pulling out of you right now?” Tell the young ladies in your life, “If you’re squeamish, don’t look down, and you’ll be fine.”

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